Why Skype Can’t Fix Our Loneliness

In theory, social distancing or sheltering in place shouldn’t be too isolating for anyone with decent wifi because we can all connect to each other online. On my calendar this week I’ve got a coffee date with a friend on Skype, church via Facebook live streaming, English coaching for a non-native speaker on Hangouts, and …

“You give benevolent lessons”

“Show me all your fingers but one,” I say.  A room full of precious Asian students grins and me and nods.  I hold my hand up. “Where are your fingers?”  Smiles all around.  “Who has a hand? Show me your hand.”  One hand tentatively goes up.  “Thank you, Zheng. Everyone else, show me your hand! …

The Least Romantic Valentine’s Day Ever

“I’m just going to toss this down; is that OK?” my husband called out from the attic. He was holding a very Large. Dead. Rat.   It was the morning of Valentine’s Day, he had the day off work, and I had asked him to plan some kind of surprise date for us to remember later. …

Misadventures with European household technology

At first it was a game. I tapped button after button, tapped and held each sensor, slid my finger along the touch-screen slider… all the while hoping to get the stovetop to heat up. But as I tapped and fiddled, holding my hand above one of the burner surfaces and sensing zero heat, my game …